Upcoming Events
- Sun, Dec 15Memento Mori CafeDec 15, 2024, 5:00 PM – 7:00 PM PSTMemento Mori Cafe, 1533 NW 24th Ave #100, Portland, OR 97210, USA*NEW DAY, LOCATION & TIME* - Emily Lily & Bex Wilborn are hosting an intimate Reflection + Protection Full Moon Circle. Please join us to reflect on, release, and compost 2024 and be guided through a protection meditation as we transition into a new year and a new world ♥
Our Circles
Why do we circle?
Moon circles and seasonal circles are rituals that have been practiced by various cultures throughout history. It involves gathering in a circle during a specific moon phase or season and performing rituals and ceremonies, related to the moon phase and sign. Also, to dismantle the patriarchy. Circling and attuning to our inner wisdom is a radical act. When we form community around our individual and collective truth, intuition, and power, we help create an emotionally and spiritually evolved society.
Who does our circle serve?
Our Circles are offered to marginalized genders including women, non-binary, trans, and gender non-conforming people who are comfortable in a space that centers the experiences of women. Together, we will practice aligning with the cycles of nature, reflecting, slowing down, listening to our inner guidance, sharing with one another, and building community.
We acknowledge and honor the intersectionality of race, gender, and identity. We are committed to creating experiences that are inclusive, accessible, and affirming for all individuals, recognizing the unique challenges and strengths that arise from these intersecting identities. It is our intention to foster a space where everyone feels seen, valued, and supported.
What to expect
Our circles have follow the same general flow, but sometimes shift based on the season and needs of the group. Here is what you can expect:
ARRIVE - intros, pronouns, and share how you are arriving to the circle.
ALIGN - turn inward, learn about the season, the moon's energy, and what that means.
REFLECT - journal prompts to self-reflect on how the moon cycle is showing up in your life.
SHARE - partners or triads, sharing and listening with others.
MEDITATION or ACTIVITY - guided meditation or other introspective activity.
REFLECT - journal prompt/post meditation reflections.
CIRCLE SHARE - option to share with everyone in the circle.
CLOSING - share how you are leaving the circle.
Please bring
♥Journal
♥ Pen
♥ Open mind and heart
♥ Comfortable and cozy clothing
Circle Participation Agreements
Circles are a sacred space for healing, growth, and connection. We are committed to creating an environment that is safe, respectful, and inclusive for all participants. To maintain this sacred space, all attendees must agree to the following principles:
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Respect for All Identities: We honor and respect the inherent dignity of every individual, including but not limited to women, transgender people, LGBTQ+ individuals, and members of BIPOC (Black, Indigenous, and People of Color) communities. We are committed to fostering an environment where everyone feels seen, heard, and valued.
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Support for Equal Rights: All participants affirm their support for the rights and well-being of marginalized groups, including women, transgender people, LGBTQ+ individuals, and BIPOC communities. We advocate for justice, equality, and freedom from discrimination for all people, regardless of gender, sexual identity, race, or ethnicity.
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Inclusive Language and Actions: We commit to using inclusive and affirming language. This includes respecting pronouns, avoiding harmful stereotypes, and being mindful of the diverse backgrounds and experiences represented in the circle.
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Zero Tolerance for Discrimination or Harm: Discrimination, racism, homophobia, transphobia, misogyny, or any form of harm based on race, gender, sexual orientation, or identity will not be tolerated. We are committed to holding space where all individuals can express themselves authentically, without fear of harm or exclusion.
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Supportive and Empowering Community: We create a community based on compassion, solidarity, and collective healing. This is a space where each person’s experiences are valued, and where we work to uplift one another, particularly those who have been historically marginalized or oppressed.
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Honesty: We speak from direct experience—the “I” place. We refrain from speaking about “you” and actively quiet the human habit of reacting, solutioning, and rescuing. We share our truth in a way that invites connection, understanding, and mutual respect.
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Safety/Confidentiality: We promise full confidentiality and do not discuss or allow discussion of what transpires outside our circle. We protect each person’s right to anonymity and privacy. What is shared within the circle stays within the circle, ensuring a space of trust and security.
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Compassion: We actively open our hearts to every person present, including ourselves. We recognize that each participant carries their own unique experiences and challenges, and we commit to holding space with empathy, kindness, and understanding.
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Stillness: We consciously allow space for stillness and silence to enter. We understand that so much of the magic of Circle happens within these moments of pause. We honor the power of stillness and give it space to breathe, allowing the energy of the circle to flow naturally.
By attending circle, you confirm your commitment to upholding these principles and actively contributing to a Circle that supports the well-being, dignity, and rights of all individuals.
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Benefits of Attending Circle & Being in Community
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Empowerment Through Shared Experience
In Circle, we speak from the heart and share from our own direct experience. This fosters a sense of empowerment and authenticity as we connect with others who are also speaking their truths. Through collective storytelling, we honor each person’s unique journey, creating a deeper sense of belonging and self-empowerment.
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Healing in a Safe and Supportive Environment
By committing to confidentiality and respecting privacy, the Circle creates a container for healing where individuals can express themselves without fear of judgment or exposure. This sense of safety allows participants to release emotional burdens, heal old wounds, and find peace within themselves.
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A Sense of Connection and Belonging
Circle provides a space where everyone is seen and valued. Whether you're from a marginalized community or simply seeking connection, being in Circle nurtures feelings of solidarity and belonging. You are not alone in your journey—this is a space to feel deeply supported by others who share your values of compassion and respect.
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Personal Growth and Transformation
In the collective energy of Circle, personal growth can blossom. Whether through shared wisdom, meditation, or intentional reflection, participants are encouraged to grow spiritually, emotionally, and mentally. The Circle serves as a mirror, allowing us to see ourselves more clearly, recognize patterns, and take steps toward healing and transformation.
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Nurturing Compassion for Yourself and Others
Circle emphasizes compassion—both for ourselves and others. By practicing kindness and understanding in a group setting, participants learn to hold space for their own vulnerabilities and the vulnerabilities of others. This practice of compassion fosters a deeper connection with oneself and with those around us.
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Moments of Stillness and Reflection
Circle honors the power of stillness and silence. These quiet moments allow participants to reflect, center themselves, and access deeper levels of intuition and wisdom. Through stillness, we can connect with the magic of the present moment and allow inner peace to emerge.
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Clarity and Insight Through Shared Wisdom
Circle creates a space for collective wisdom to emerge. Each participant brings their unique perspective, and together, we gain insights that we might not have accessed alone. Sharing in the experience of others opens the door to new perspectives, guidance, and clarity on our own life path.
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A Source of Support and Accountability
Being part of a community that values honesty, respect, and mutual growth creates an ongoing system of support. Whether you're navigating personal challenges, seeking guidance, or celebrating milestones, Circle holds you accountable and provides a network of like-minded individuals who are there to support your journey. The relationships built in Circle offer lasting encouragement and connection beyond the gathering.
Thank you for helping make this circle happen! Please message us with any questions.